I was born in Bogota, Colombia and moved to the US when I was just starting to figure out who I was. I’m a traveler and have learned to grow internal roots so that I can take my home with me wherever I go. Currently, I call NYC my home.

The path hasn’t always been easy and for a long time I didn’t have a loving relationship with myself. I was SO desperate to “have someone” and terrified of “being alone” I ended up having disastrous relationships with people that, in one form or another, lacked the emotional tools to be a good partner. For many years, I was broken. It took a lot of self-conscious work to mend myself.

I learned to know me, under the layers of other people’s expectations, of social pressures, of beauty standards that had very little to do with who I was (am.) I healed and started setting limits, flighting for my goals and taking risks beyond fear. I finally got it, I was, and am, ENOUGH.

I finally understood the importance of cultivating the only relationship that will undoubtedly last a lifetime: the one I have with myself. In my process of healing and forgiveness I stared to come across other women who were also looking to connect with themselves. I am not the only one, you are not the only one. If you think about it, schools are pretty strict when it comes to math, yet they teach us nothing on emotional intelligence or conscious, pleasurable sex. I mean, putting a condom on a banana, is that the best you’ve got?

In my work as a couch, I support couples and people who want to strengthen their connection with themselves and each other and flourish into a healthy, loving and sexually charged partnership. I enjoy creating spaces for discovery and connectivity where we get to be who we really are.

My vision is for us to have relationships out of choice, not attachment, habit or dependency. And for us to connect with our pleasure map at a deep level so we can enjoy a yummy sex life.